
About Trine
Built from lived experience. Not a textbook.
People often ask how I became a coach. Honestly, I don't think I chose it. I think it found me.
For years I thought success meant pushing harder: working more, giving more, holding everything together for everyone else. Then life started making me stop, whether I wanted to or not. Burnout. A near-fatal spider bite. A cancer diagnosis and five weeks of radiation. Selling a business I'd poured years into, and walking away from a life I'd spent just as long building.
Each one stripped away another layer of who I thought I had to be, until I finally had to ask: who am I when I'm not performing, achieving, or taking care of everyone else?
That question is the reason this work exists.
I didn't become someone new. I finally listened to who was already there.
I spent years believing that if I worked hard enough, achieved enough, and kept everyone else happy, I'd eventually land somewhere life felt easier. But there's always another goal when achievement is the measure: another business, another responsibility, another person who needs you.
Then my body started talking. My energy changed. My relationships felt different, and the life that used to fit stopped fitting.
That was the start of rebuilding: nutrition, health, habits, nervous system regulation, breathwork, identity work, more reading and unlearning than I can list here. But the real shift wasn't anything I learned. It was realising I didn't need fixing. I needed to stop abandoning myself, start trusting myself, and actually decide what mattered now.
I got calmer. Steadier. More direct. I don't coach from a pedestal, because I've stood exactly where you're standing, not knowing where the road goes, just knowing I couldn't keep walking the old one.
I'm not who I used to be. I'm not finished, either.
I'm calmer than I was. More intentional, more present, less reactive. I trust myself more than I used to, and I protect my energy instead of handing it out to whoever asks first. I still do the work. Transformation isn't something you finish once, it's something you keep living.
I don't promise to have every answer. I promise to meet you where you actually are, ask the questions you've been avoiding, push when you need pushing, and remind you what you're capable of on the days you've forgotten.
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